Thursday, December 31, 2009

God With Us . . .

 

It's the last day of the year . . . the 7th day of Christmas . . . and we still have our Christmas tree up and our decorations are still all over the apartment. These wall hangings actually stay up all year. The one on the left says, "Yi Ma Nei Li" which is a transliteration of "Emmanuel" -- God with us. The middle one means "Peace" and the one of the right means "Joy."

I wish you peace and joy throughout the new year!
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Dichotomy of My Life in China

 


As I walked home from class today, I was struck anew at the reality of our life in a developing nation. Yes, China has some pretty advanced locations, but those modern technologies are right beside last century developments.

Our classes are required classes for all non-English major graduate students in the university. Even though oral English is required for all students, the importance of the classes is still rather low on the priority level. Our classes are huge (usually around 60 students, sometimes, more), which makes it a challenge to give students enough opportunities to speak. Students are placed in classes according to written test scores, not based on oral evaluations, thus some classes can have some very fluent speakers as well as some people whose spoken abilities lag far behind their reading and test-taking abilities.

Our classrooms are usually in the oldest buildings on campus. Our university celebrated its 100th birthday in 2002 and our classrooms are in original structures. The rooms have high ceilings, cement floors and wooden casement windows that can easily be blown off their hinges in a good windstorm. We still use blackboards (actually, they are green) and we usually go through quite a bit of very dusty chalk during each lesson.

Walking home, I noticed anew how dusty our city is. I don’t know why it hit me today since dust is one of my main struggles in this area. We live in a very dry area, south of a major desert, so there is just no escaping the dust. However, the grayness seemed extra sharp to me.

I’ve been giving exams all week. This is both an exhilarating process and an extremely painful process. Due to the January 1 holiday on Friday, I have all seven classes crammed into four days, as well as four hours of office hours. I’m tired and irritable . . . counting down to Friday morning when I can sleep late! While we are remembering the Twelve Days of Christmas (a special remembrance for each day), today, I simply found myself lacking joy in the journey and was feeling quite fatigued instead.

I walked into the grocery store hoping to be inspired by something to cook for dinner. Nope, nothing there. Instead, I headed over to the produce market (we’d call it a Farmers Market in the States) and stocked up on veggies. I came home, ignored the mess in the living room (it looked it could be declared a disaster area) and went to the kitchen to slice, dice, chop and wok. (My cleaver/butcher knife is my best friend in the kitchen.) I got the potatoes put into the oven for roasting and sliced some green onions. I put water on to boil for some broccoli that I would use in the stir fry I was going to prepare. I was getting ready to put the rice in the rice cooker when the entire apartment went dark. Yes, the electricity went out again.

Sigh. Turns out that Rachel had turned on the electric heater in her bedroom and set it on high. That really puts a strain on the wiring in our apartment and with all the kitchen stuff I had going, the system was overloaded and blew out.

We cannot reset the fuse ourselves as it’s located in a locked utility room on the first floor.. We called the maintenance department and they said they would send someone over. An hour later, power still had not been restored, so we called again. Turns out that the key to the utility room is kept in a central key closet . . . that was locked . . . that only one person had a key to . . . who had already gone home! The earliest we will receive power will be 8:30 tomorrow morning . . . and we’ll probably have to call to remind them.

I’m normally pretty relaxed about things like this, but tonight, I must admit to being irritated. This is such a low-tech problem that doesn’t need a high-tech solution. A key to the key closet isn’t on campus! It doesn’t seem too complicated to make sure that someone one campus has access to this closet 24/7 . . . but I must remember that I’m not here to change the system.

We are so blessed! Art had brought home some food from one of our favorite restaurants, so we had a good dinner. We have an extra apartment across the hall that wasn’t affected by the power outage so the kids had a place to do homework. Art moved the oven over there so the potatoes could be finished and they made for a good bedtime treat. Art’s in the other apartment doing some work. I’m sitting here, typing on a fairly new computer, accessing the downstairs neighbor’s wireless internet. While the candlelight makes things romantic and conjures up images of the “good old days,” we have to remember that it’s not quite “Little House on the Prairie” with all this technology around us.

But it is a good representation of China. Modern and post-modern; industrial and pre-industrial . . . all stitched together on the same garment. The style of the garment has yet to be determined as the pattern is constantly changing. However, it most certainly will be unique and one-of-a-kind. This, too, is China!
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Monday, December 28, 2009

Happy Birthday, Jesus!

 


One of our annual traditions is a birthday cake for Jesus. This year, I tried a potato spice cake recipe and it turned out fantastic! The kids liked the mini-m&m's best, though!
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Wednesday, December 23, 2009

It might be Christmas, but . . .

 

 


Chinese New Year is still the dominant holiday floating around.

In 2010, Chinese New Year (or "Spring Festival" as it's known in Chinese) is on February 14. Tibetan New Year is also n February 14. The United States' Presidents Day is February 15. Mardi Gras in February 16. Ash Wednesday is February 17. Get the picture? Lots of festivities abound!

Christmas in China is typically a one-day affair. There are limited decorations, although one nearby market is playing Christmas music all day long! It's quite surprising to hear Madonna's "Santa Baby" or "Feliz Navidad" blaring in a Chinese mall!

At any rate, some shops have a Santa or a tree displayed, but that's the extent of the decorations. However, the Chinese New Year (CNY) are already coming out!

Traditionally, China starts to prepare for CNY right after the calendar new year (January 1). Some places are getting a head start. The upcoming year is the Year of the Tiger, so the most common thing I will see for the next seven weeks are little (and big) tigers everywhere! Stuffed tigers, paper tigers, ceramic tigers, tiger masks, tiger gloves . . . tiger, tiger, tiger! This shop already had their tigers up and ready for sale!
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First Day of Winter

 

 

 

 


There are two customs in China associated with the official onset of winter. The first is that one should eat dumplings (jiaozi). Dumplings somewhat resemble the shape of a human ear, so the old wives' tale connected to this tradition is that if you eat dumplings on the first day of winter, then your ears will be warm throughout the winter as well. Of course, hats, scarves, ear warmers, etc. don't hurt when it comes to keeping your ears warm!

I joined the crowds of people in the market yesterday before lunch as I purchased three bags of frozen dumplings. I could have gone to a restaurant to buy them as well, but the restaurant we like was too far away for me to get there in the short period of time I had. At any rate, quite a few people were buying what I was buying so I felt assured that I was buying the right thing. (That's my key to success . . . are locals buying the item? If so, it's good!)

I went home and boiled them and my kids and husband delightfully dug in. Rachel said, "Wow, I feel just like a real Chinese family!" (I've been cooking more as of late and my family has been enjoying the home-cooked meals.) Later in the evening, I stopped by a restaurant to pick up some noodles and the place was almost completely empty! It doesn't sell dumplings so their normally packed place wasn't doing any business. I asked them if they had eaten any dumplings that day and they said, "No." I then suggested that they do an exchange with another restaurant who sold the dumplings!

Another tradition with Winter Solstice is the burning of "spirit money." The first photo shows a seller out yesterday with his yellow papers (joss paper) and fake money. This is a centuries old tradition that is a combination of Taoism, Buddhism and just plain, old folklore. People buy these items and burn them in memory of their ancestors. Most people do so out of the sense of tradition, but some still believe that if you burn these items, then your loved ones will not only be warm in their afterlife, but will then have the burned items for their enjoyment and needs. As a result, the loved ones will continue to care for you in your present life. Paper clothing is also burned on this day.

If a significant cold snap happens prior to the first day of winter, then "money" is burned at that time. The photos of ashes are from fires burned at the beginning of November when we dropped well below freezing. I saw the students making a few fires, but it wasn't until the next morning that I saw how many had been set that night. They do monitor them until the fires are out, so there is no danger of a fire getting out of control.

The ashes remained for a couple of days and then they were swept up and tossed away. I wonder how many ash piles I will see this morning when I go out?
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Monday, December 21, 2009

Final Exams a la Foreign Teacher Style!

 


I'll be giving final exams until December 31 (started last week). It takes quite some time to evaluate 421 students, especially when the exam is an spoken one.

China is very test-oriented. Many students either "make it or break it" based on a test score. This holds true for getting into middle school, high school, and university. Getting OUT of university means passing some tests in English (College English Test (CET) 4 for undergraduates and CET 6 for graduate students). If these tests aren't passed, then the student receives only a diploma instead of a degree. Many jobs require passing some sort of test. Keeping a job means passing a test. Tests, tests, tests! No one likes them and most students get quite uptight over them.

While English is a required subject beginning in third grade (which means most of my graduate students have been studying English for 14 or more years), the standardized tests do not include any oral evaluation. My students may know grammar like the back of their hands, but speaking can be a real trial for them. Therefore, when I announced that my class (a listening and speaking class) would have a spoken final, the groans were quite audible.

I do make it somewhat easy for them. After all, all of my students are non-English majors and many of them will never use English in their careers. I allow them to choose their topics based on what we've studied this semester and I try to create a relaxed setting. Overall, I think it's working. I've had some obviously nervous students, but most students have passed the exam quite easily. I've only had to "fail" a couple of them and that was due to their complete inability to say anything beyond some memorized lines. However, they have enough points accumulated from their attendance and other class evaluations that they will both pass the class anyway (even if it is with a "D").
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Saturday, December 19, 2009

Stocking Stuffers

 

 


I hosted a stocking party on Thursday and while only seven students came, it was still a big success! I had to hunt high and low for stockings and then bargain like crazy, but at last I had them in hand. They already had Santas or snowmen on them, so the students just added their names and whatever else they wanted. I couldn't find glitter pens, so I stocked up on sequins and glue. It worked just as well . . . and maybe even better than just glue pens. It's amazing to see how much fun university students have over activities like these . . . especially since it's a "first" for most of them. It's a great way to teach culture and to be quite relaxed in an English setting!

I took these photos with my mobile phone . . . the batteries in my camera died and I didn't have any extra. At least I was able to capture the mood somewhat, though.

Next week, I think I'll be showing the Rudolf cartoon on Thursday and then "The Nativity Story" on Christmas night.
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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Measure twice, cut once

 


Rachel has been wearing glasses for about a year and a half and she is on her third prescription. We got her new glasses this past summer and lately, she's been saying that she can't see clearly. I took her in to get her eyes examined (precipitated by her glasses getting broken!) and her eyes have changed (gotten worse) significantly since the last check-up six months ago.

I like how the doctor has each person wear their new prescription for about twenty minutes before they place the order for the glasses to be made. Rachel looks like an alien in this picture, but testing the new lenses really makes sense. After reporting that she can see quite clearly without problems, we ordered the glasses and got them back within a couple of hours.

Rachel doesn't know the song, but she's been dancing around the house, "I can see clearly (now the rain is gone)!" She doesn't mind wearing glasses at all. I'm just afraid that she has inherited my side of the family's bad eyesight. (Michael's eyes are fine . . . he's inherited my side of the family's weak and crooked teeth!)
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Monday, December 14, 2009

It's going to be a 7-Up Christmas!

 

 

 

Christmas decorations in my part of China are usually pretty . . . weak. Lopsided trees with little or no sense of decorations; few ornaments, crooked garland, etc. It doesn't bother me . . . it's a fairly new holiday to the area.

Even Christmas carols don't seem unique as "Jingle Bells" gets played all year long on the street cleaning trucks (which make me think of ice cream trucks every time!) and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" is a somewhat popular song with completely different lyrics.

Imagine my surprise when I came upon this HUGE Christmas tree downtown. I've not seen one this big in a public arena (some hotels have large trees in their lobbies, though). As Rachel and I walked up to it, we saw that it was sponsored by 7-Up and that the entire tree was made of empty 7-Up bottles. I don't think I want to know how long it took to make this tree!

I've included some other photos of decorations in the same area to give you somewhat of an idea as to what it's like here. That gingerbread looking display is about as fancy as it gets here!
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Saturday, December 12, 2009

Cherub Choir

 

 

 


After a long and exhausting week, the kids and I, along with Michelle and her two daughters, performed tonight at the Graduate School Winter Program. We didn't know that the performance was today (December 12), until Monday. Then there was lots of back and forth over practices and rehearsals. The dress rehearsal was Wednesday morning at 8:00 . . . when all the kids are in school and I'm in class! Needless to say, we didn't make that one.

We were asked to be at the performance hall at 8:30 on Saturday to go over our music on stage. We were there at 8:15, but the doors weren't opened until close to 9:00. Fortunately, they let us practice first and then we got to go home.

Back at 2:00 for one more run through with all the acts and then waited for the 4:00 start time. It was so cute when the kids walked on stage as there was a collective "Awwwwwww" over how adorable they looked! Especially the littlest one!

We had to wait until the end of the show in order to take a bow with everyone. Michael couldn't (and didn't) wait that long and bolted immediately after we were done. Following the final curtain call, everyone mobbed the stage to take pictures with the cute foreign kids. Many of the other performers were my students so the paparazzi flash cubes were non-stop.

In spite of the exhaustion, it was indeed fun. Performances like this are a big deal here and our participation contributes to relationship building all around.
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Friday, December 11, 2009

Cookies anyone?

 

 

 

 


I hosted a cookie party last night . . . nineteen (19) students came and we had an incredible time! None of them had ever made cookies before, so this was a complete cultural lesson for them. They loved the cutout kind of cookies. Additionally, the frosting was made using margarine and powdered sugar . . . none of them had ever seen margarine used that way! The looks on their face were priceless.

Rachel and Michael had a wonderful time as well. They mingled with the "big kids" and stuffed their faces with Christmas cookies.

I borrowed a friend's oven so that we could have two batches going at a time. As you can see, the ovens aren't very big, but they do the job!

It was an amazing evening. Next week, we're going to sing Christmas carols and possibly make stockings. It depends upon whether or not I make it out to the market that has the stockings.

I am moving into the land of "beyond exhausted."
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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

The most wonderful man!

 


I have the most wonderful husband in the world! I've always said that he's one of the nicest people you'll ever meet and it's true. This is not because he is married to me . . . in fact, I sometimes wonder why he is married to me because I don't think I'm very nice at all. Art is slow to speak, slow to anger. He looks before he leaps. He always considers the other person's thoughts and feelings. He puts other people first. He is gentle and kind. He is a truly amazing man and I'm so glad to be married to him!
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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Charlie Brown Christmas Tree

 


It may be small and it may be narrow, but it's ours and the kids love it! They turn on the lights every day and won't turn them off until evening. They play with the nativity set (made of yarn . . . perfect for play!) every day and their conversations with Baby Jesus are just precious!

Even though China doesn't celebrate the Christmas season in the same manner as many western countries, we are able to find every Christmas decoration (with the exception of nativity sets) known to the world. After all, China is the world's factory. It's nice to keep the true meaning of Christmas alive, no matter where we are!
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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Cough, cough, hack, hack

 

 

 


Wintertime in my city is filled with the sound of hacking and coughing. Once the coal-generated heat comes on (usually around November 1), the air becomes thick and grey. The coal heating is a top layer of an already polluted area as we have two major petro-chemical factories in our city that belch out black stuff most of the time.

However, wintertime is the worst. Most days look like this. The city sits in a bowl with mountains on all sides, but one can seldom see them in the winter months. It's not uncommon for everyone's lungs to be affected one way or another and this year, I am no exception.

I always feel like I'm coming down with a cold. I caught pneumonia last month and recovered just fine, but still have an achy chest and a cough that just won't go away. I pulled out a humidifier today and will give it a shot at providing moisture in this incredibly dry area. No, the greyness isn't fog and humidity. We live south of the Gobi Desert and it's beyond dry here.

I hope it clears up soon . . . in more ways than one.
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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Leaves of Thanks

 


One of our Thanksgiving traditions is to make "Leaves of Thanks" or a Thanksgiving Tree. Since living in China, we most often do the simple leaves and tape them to our wall.

The leaves remain up until the end of the Christmas season. They remind us on a daily basis how blessed we are and how much we have to be thankful for!
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Monday, November 30, 2009

The cake that almost got away . . .

 

 


This is "Great Aunt Helen's Pumpkin Cake." Now, Great Aunt Helen wasn't MY aunt, but that's the name of the recipe! I found it in the San Jose Mercury Newspaper in 2002 and I've made it every year since then. I don't really like how pumpkin pie feels in my mouth, so this cake was a great way to have the flavor without the texture.

You've already heard about the frosting incident at the Beijing airport. That was escape attempt #1.

It took me two days to make this cake. My oven is not a standard size oven that can hold two cake layers at a time . . . it's barely bigger than a toaster oven and can only hold one layer at a time. Each layer takes 30 minutes to bake, so the baking time alone is two hours.

I started on Friday and finished on Saturday. Cake had to be completely cool before frosting. Not that difficult. While it was cooling, I made southern cornbread dressing (completely with bacon and chicken), macaroni salad and some rice krispy treats. A potluck with 35 other people takes a lot of food! (Plus, I don't cook very often, so I take advantage of it whenever I can!) All this cooking is on one induction burner and that little oven!

I frosted the cake and stood back to admire it. I took pictures. I packed up all the food, along with the two carafes of coffe and off we went. I was very carefully carrying the cake with a large plastic trash bag over it (with toothpicks stuck in the cake to prevent plastic "stickage"). My family and I carefully got into the taxi.

Taxis are NOT known for their cautiousness in driving. In fact, the opposite is true. We had to go two miles and those two miles were among the most insanely driven two miles I had ever been on. The cake literally was sliding all over itself . . . escape #2! I pretty much plastered my hand to one side of it to keep it from toppling over. I walked into our friend's apartment without removing my hand from the impromptu rescue. I then placed the whole mess on a table, got a knife and went to work.

The repair job was decent and everyone enjoyed seeing a four-layer cake on the desert table. Considering that there were also three pumpkin pies, one apple pie, one chocolate cake, the rice krispies AND the pumpkin cake, I was pretty amazed that half of the cake was gone. We served the other half at sundae club and it completely disappeared.

(Art made sure he got some. Last year, I made a two-layer version and Art waited too late and it was gone before he got any. This year, he ate desert first! I only make this cake once a year so he wants to make sure he can enjoy it!)
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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Yup, it's cold!

 


After a three-week break (due to pneumonia and extremely frigid temperatures), I started my morning walks again. The temp wasn't too bad . . . about 20 degrees (F) and the wind wasn't blowing. However, I made sure I had my hat, ear warmers, gloves and face mask.

Face masks have evolved into a major fashion item! Just two years ago, they were pretty much all white, with the occasional "gangster" black. This year, you can get all kinds of designs, sequins, rhinestones, etc. Even the guys have a selection now!

At any rate, I walked a mile . . . my lungs still hurt sometimes . . . and it felt great! I'll continue with one mile this week and increase it to two miles next week.

(And yes, I love purple!)
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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Stoney hearts

 

 


Every day, while walking to and from class, I pass by this little "stoney heart" on the sidewalk. I have no idea how or if this cement was poured accidentally or on purpose, but it serves as a great reminder to me:

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." Love, love, love. That's what it's all about!
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